Tuesday, January 22, 2008

Growing Up Online/ Teen Angels

I just finished watching the FRONTLINE documentary Growing Up Online. I highly recommend it. It highlights the importance of the online universe to today's teenagers. It seems ridiculous to think we can teach students without tapping into this world. 

A few of the featured stories really upset me. One was the story of a 13 year-old who committed suicide after being cyber-bullied and discussing methods of suicide with an online friend. One thing that stunned me was an online survey he took "for fun" that gave a personality assessment and then provided your ideal way of killing yourself.
The other story that bothered me very deeply was the anorexic girl who felt she could only be her real self on the Internet. Her parents and real life friends had no idea that she was suffering from an eating disorder. She used the Internet for connecting with other "anas" (their cool term for girls with eating disorders) and for information on bingeing, purging and starving.
Suicide and eating disorders have always been a disturbing part of adolescence, even since the pre-Internet days of my own adolescence. What is so much worse is that the Internet makes these behaviors seem normal by allowing connection with others who are experiencing or exploring the same behavior.

So, what are we, as teachers, parents and other caring adults, to do?
One thing I have done is to start a Teen Angels chapter at our school. Teen Angels is a program started by Parry Aftab of Wired Safety. We are in the process of completing the training, which is quite extensive and includes research projects and visits from local law enforcement. In February, our Teen Angels will be giving presentations to younger students at our school and to parents at an evening PTA meeting. I like Teen Angels because I think that students are more likely to pay attention to a peer than to an adult when it comes to something like online safety. 

Our school does use a filter for the Internet. I know this is one of the great debates of the edu-blogosphere, a subject for another post, but I will say that I am not against filters in schools. I just think that they fail to really address the problem. I like what Parry Aftab says, that we need to teach kids to use the filter between their ears. Truly, the Internet gives rise to the need for a whole new skill-set in this realm. 

3 comments:

Parry Aftab said...

thanks Andrea for your commitment to making your students and all kids safer online.
I can't wait to see your teenangels in action. On the Frontline special you saw some of our teenangels and tweenangels. They are amazing.
For anyone who wants more info on setting up their own chapter, they can visit teenangels.org or e-mail teenangels@wiredsafety.org.

best.
Parry Aftab

Nomyszoy said...

Andrea, I am so glad that you decided to start this blog. A lot of teachers can really benefit from your experience. You are a true gem!
I have the pleasure in working with you, and I can not wait to start a new project. Our school are very lucky to have you as a Technology teacher. I will keep coming back to your blog.
Lehit.
Nomy

Andrea Hernandez said...

Thank you Parry and Nomy for your comments and for your own commitments and contributions to technology in education and keeping kids safe online.